Meet our Wedding Planner

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Since moving to London, one of the most common questions I get asked is how on earth I’m able to continue planning our wedding in New York. I always tell them the same thing – we have an amazing wedding planner! Adrienne from Ruffles & Tweed has been my saving grace during this transition.

I decided long before I knew we were moving to London that I wanted to work with a wedding planner. I think I hired her back in January! For whatever reason I’ve found that many people are surprised I’ve decided to use a planner – why can’t I handle the planning on my own? The obvious answer now is that I’m in London. But back in January, the answer was because I needed someone there on our wedding day to help ensure things run smoothly. Since we’re having a smaller wedding at a restaurant (you can read about our venue here), it didn’t come with an on-site planner or maîtred’ to assist with day-of coordination, like many larger venues do. That means either myself, a bridesmaid, or a member of my family would have to be at Frankie’s all day to ensure everything is arriving on time and being set up according to our vision. I didn’t want to put that burden on myself, or on my friends and family. This was the initial reason why I decided to go with a planner, but Adrienne has helped me with so much more.

Not only has Adrienne planned weddings at Frankie’s in the past, she’s done so in nearly every month of the year! She clearly knows the venue way better than I ever could, and is much more in tune to what works and what doesn’t. She supplied me with an amazing list of vendors who have been successful at Frankie’s in the past, and has been able to steer me in the right direction for everything from cake to flowers (seriously you guys – I never would have found our cake without Adrienne and it’s to die for!). We’re still in the initial stages of the decor and the smaller details, but I feel 100% confident she understands my vision for our day and will do an amazing job at helping me bring it to life.

If you’re unsure about whether you need a wedding planner, my advice would be to go for it! You’re not being “lazy” or “uninvolved” if you choose to use a planner – you are simply asking for help to ensure that your big day is everything you ever dreamed it would be. With Adriennes help, I know that ours is going to be all that we wanted and more!

What do you guys think about wedding planners? Did you / would you work with one for your big day?

xx Mollie

PS. If you’re planning a wedding in the tri-state area as well, be sure to check out Adrienne! I obviously can’t recommend her enough 😉



  1. Lacey
    June 18, 2018 / 2:56 pm

    We used a month-of coordinator. My husband and I found and booked all our vendors, choose our decor, food, and cake. Then the month of our wedding our planner took over communicating final details with our vendors and creating our wedding day timeline. It was so great on the wedding day to not have to worry about anything and just enjoy.

    • June 24, 2018 / 5:00 pm

      Yes exactly!! At first I was only interested in month-of help, but now that I’m abroad especially, she’s going to be assisting with design elements as well. I know that when the day arrives she is going to be the one keeping me stress free – and that is something that’s totally priceless! xx Mollie

  2. Taylor Aube
    June 18, 2018 / 8:56 pm

    Sounds so lovely and exciting! Love this post babe

  3. June 18, 2018 / 9:13 pm

    I think you’re going to be so happy having a wedding planner! It really does make the day so much easier, and if a problem occurs you can just pass it along to them and enjoy your day! so happy for you!

  4. We were just talking about this the other night! One friend had to use a wedding planner because of the venue, and another wants to because she’s having a destination wedding. I do like that a wedding planner will help tremendously if things go wrong and planning the day.

  5. June 19, 2018 / 1:33 am

    I can’t even imagine planning a wedding on my own, nevermind while being abroad! I can’t wait to see photos from your big day!


  6. June 19, 2018 / 9:47 am

    Wow that is so awesome babe! Planning a wedding is so stressful, if i could do it again, I would hire a wedding planner as well!

    cute & little

  7. Stuart Brazell
    June 20, 2018 / 8:46 am

    You are incredible, best wishes for an amazing wedding!!

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